There was many a times when we as young adolescents would do everything in our power to "fight the power" so to speak of the parentals. We couldn't understand for the life of us- why these guardians wanted to control our lives so much. They said it was love, they said we would understand, they said one day- we would thank them.
Well- Pigs get your wings ready and Satan better buy some sweaters- cause that day has come, and I admit "They were right"!
As a child you do not- and cannot understand the wisdom and experience that your parents (or adults in general) have come from until- you as a young adult go through them yourself. Everything that happens to you is so pivotal in your journey to becoming an adult. The mistakes you make, the heartache you endure and the loss you experience. Additionally - the success that comes, the friends you make and the challenges that you over come bring additional wisdom to your journey.
As I have gotten older- I have seen myself become a better person. One with more patience, more love, and less "fly by seat of my pants" antics. I will be the first to say that I m not perfect- far from it. But I'm learning to slow down and enjoy the scenery- more than ever before.
Over the last year- I have seen friends get married, have kids and family members pass away. I have noticed my mother aging, my sister getting older and having kids and the crows feet start to make their home on my face. All of these moments have caused some pause for me to reflect on how far I have come from that shy little boy from Guam- what a life I have lived so far.
As I continue to reflect on all these moments- I must remember I have a responsibility. To teach, to give advice and to say "When I was your age" to as many young kids- As I once was- so that they may get a moment as I did- to make sure their path and their journey is steadfast and fruitful.
Here's to Moms & Dads everywhere.
